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Wednesday, April 15, 2020

Why I feel bad in female clothes and lingerie after orgasm and have to take them off?

Ka-Ching ! That's what a counsellor hears if asked the title question. The sound of easy money.
Need to remove female clothes, panties, bra, slip, stockings, all, I feel bad in female clothes after orgasm...

Tell them the truth and end their misery in a few sentences? Nan. Better exploit them for years as stable sources of income.

Good news, I don't generate revenue as counsellor. Get ready for a rough ride.

Interweb is overloaded with masturbatory drones, guys in panties showing evidence of blissful manhandling of their hard organs.
Pink panties, pink bra, popping champagne.
So, what happens after ?
And then? Nothing. That's how the movie abruptly ends. The cork popped, that's what all was about.

Emptiness, quick disrobing, it'll be better next time.

The difference between a "guilty" Sissy and an unsatisfied fetishist is a murky zone inhabited by guilt, a powerful and very efficient predator of self-esteem. The one way gate to depression.

Both Sissies and fetishists are subjected to cognitive dissonance. Somehow they enjoy female attire while as genetic males, they shouldn't.

At this point, a "male" monkey spanking orgasm is what it takes to derail the train.
  • I need female attire, I just do
  • It turns me on
  • I get the job done
  • I feel bad because men are not supposed to do this
  • Solution, push quickly all under the carpet and forget about it
That's because, happens, human brain directs to actions that minimize or cancel the dissonance between incoming information.

What if instead of the "male" orgasm they were given the possibility to experience an as feminine as possible sexuality?

A profoundly different one, deeper, explosive, something stroking the pole can not achieve?

Welcome to SissyGasm.

It exists. In all possible shapes and sizes. All it takes is to learn how to get there. Some first hand experiences:
  • Old experience, reenacting past memories, read here
  • Advice for couples discovering life, read here
  • When alone, read here
  • The other side of chastity, read here
  • Chastity devices for femininity enhancement, read here
Female orgasms have that many initially unknown to genetic males aspects. A full featured treasure trove that Sissies can unlock and exploit to new, higher levels.

Cuddling, sweet soft abandon, achievement, each experience fuels what Sissyhood is all about.

Sissies undergoing a Syssygasm instead of a male orgasm receive a rewarding confirmation that this is how things are meant to be. No cognitive dissonance ensues.

Those wet panties are not a nuisance but a confirmation that all other perceptions, swishy nightie, hugging bra, fragrance, disorderly hair, the entire environment has has distillated itself into a Sissy mental elixir.

That's why Sissygasms are rewarding self-confirmation experiences, close calls of feminine sexuality in accordance with the Sissy feminization evolution context.

Illustration of Sissy Elixir
Sissies are deeply gratified by the feminizing
consequences of Sissygasms.
Attracted by "objects of desire" fetischists who lack the deeply rooted femininity of Sissies perceive Sissygasms as humiliating and often aspire to be forced or otherwise coerced.

The chain of events is slightly different as the object or situation is the trigger of events and the achieved in the process "forced" feminization is the imposed outcome that alleviates guilt.

Coercion and restraints are not just kinky situation awareness enhancements and assume, for fetischists, the role of necessary for self-acceptance boundary conditions.
Fetischistic attraction focuses on
objects and not their functional contribution.
Unlike Sissies, fetischists fantasize of the close presence of feminizing objects and exclude them as essential contributions to the positive evolution of a pre-existing deeply rooted feminine mindset.

In other words, a fetischist will undergo feminization as a consequence of the need of contact with feminine attire while a Sissy perceives feminine attire as a rewarding consequence of evolving deeply rooted femininity.

That's why the emulation of feminine sexuality, Sissygasms inclusive, will confirm Sissies in their emotional comfort zone and disrupt the cognitive patterns of fetischists.

So if, even after a sweet ground-shaking Sissygasm you feel the need to disrobe from your feminine attire, then, most probably you are not a Sissy.

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