For reasons stated in this (interesting) link, I opted out of the below mentioned social bra-club.
I'm blessed with very bra-competent acquaintances. Who can spot fitting problems at a glance and have very respectable private collections of various bras.
Why it wrinkles here, quads there, digs, slips, gaps, these Ladies know it all by experience and by the book.
Yes, I agree, fabulous privilege indeed, endless source of knowledge. These Ladies take bra science very seriously. Sole exception: -Pointy bras.
Dear Sisters, happens that the major part of genetic Ladies hate anything else than smooth round spherical boobage.
Without really knowing why.
Pointy bras are dubbed corny, has-been, retro, ridiculous. Mostly by those without a proper first-hand experience.
A small minority would admit that well fitted quality pointy bras feel great, add an undeniable charm to classy outfits. But, you know, they're pointy, corny and... Well that's it, pointy and corny.
Not so quick. Pictures of naked breasts under water are easy to obtain and I urge you to do so right now.
Boobs are slightly buoyant and water can be considered as a very appropriate uniform lift light bra.
OK, be reassured, walking with a portable swimming pool is not an option.
Observe nipples on such uniformly supported boobs. They feel free to assume, chill helping, an extended natural position. Which happens to be outside of the boobs.
Not exactly what occurs when boobs are confined in uniform round shape bras.
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| Even light support bras splash nipples. |
When such masses push against confined nipples, boobs win again and nipples loose.
Nipple visibility has become a heated taboo subject. But why do nipples show?
Simply because they're desperate to find, fight for, a living space.
Which spherical rounded shaped cups do not provide by design. Finally nipples surrender and forcibly retract to mourn their lost freedom.
How long can they tolerate such confinement, what are the long-term consequences ?
Not being an MD I can only guess that this is not how things are meant to be.
Envision the consequences of wearing a tight elastic strap around your head over your nose for 8 to 12 hours a day, each and every day, year after year, decades long.
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Pointy bras are
still available !
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A detail "we", those who obtained their boobs at the cost of many efforts, should logically not neglect.
The situation is rather complex. Pointy bras have a well perceivable projection while most women live in a world that somehow managed to tacitly enforce boob shaming.
Going to church in a petticoat supported skirt and bullet bra was not that long ago a socially praised and sought after neat "soap and water" look.
Even ads from these comparatively puritan to today's standards years openly praised the benefits of enhancing lingerie.
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| Dare you do this today ? |
Now what ? It is what it is or?
Good news, moderately pointy "socially correct" bras are still available. That is for those who dare to prioritize comfort over socially acceptable shaming.
How do they feel ? Correctly sized they are genuinely surprisingly comfy to start with.
Approximately, cupping your breasts from underneath with the nipple projecting in the spread between the index and middle finger.
A totally different world indeed, described in this entry.
Our boobs are a precious commodity. We'd better treat them right.
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Hello?
ReplyDeletewhat do you think of the bra ardyss angel bra for me? It is very pointed and very structured and looks very jail for girls
Hello Anonymous Honey ;)
DeleteA really interesting bra indeed !
I tried to contact Ardyss. No joy. Idem with their main UK reseller. No reply whatever. Guess they are scared from Sissies, lol !
Looks like their distribution chain is quite specific, kind of pyramid sale scheme.
I never tried one of them.
The bra looks appealing and fit for the purpose. That's all I can tell until I get to try one with the assistance of a knowledgeable brand fitter.
On the other hand, while looking for a replacement of my now discontinued Doreens I stroke gold, a bra that took the cake home and became my daily wear fleet:
https://femineaaeterna.blogspot.com/2019/04/elila-1303-reviewed-absolute-best-bra.html
This one I know first-hand, does wonders. And ELila demonstrated to be very TV/TG friendly and open minded.
Scented hugs Honey, please keep posted;)
I am attracted to the ardyss for being as they are available on ebay, another brand that I love is Jeunique, although the cup only has a horizontal seam available on ebay, my wife looked at me a brand that they call her LSOA or Suzanne available in MR .Bra. Another brand that attracts me for its robustness is fancee free soft cup when wearing the inner sling and being very structured, much more than the elila 1303 and almost like the 1505 (wide back, non-elastic and very wide straps and cups with triple stitching, a real jail. We are waiting for the black friday to acquire my next exclusive chastity belt for pink sissy. (take a look at chastityco.com and tell me your opinion). Both my wife and I want to start but considering all the alternatives of fasteners and viable belts (I have no idea of girdles, I recommend one that is compressive, since I do not use my clitty at all). Thank you
ReplyDeleteWow, hon, that's a respectable project! I admire your complicity, be you both blessed!
DeleteOver the years I accumulated hundreds of bras. Mostly supermarket or auction sites.
And a few directly from knowledgeable fitters.
The difference is huge. At the long run you get what you pay for. And that goes beyond the bra itself.
A passionate pro fitter will positively take into account the fact that we are Sissies. And orient to models that will do the job.
Other sources might just go for a sale and barely tolerate Sissies.
Last, some are purely hostile.
Jeunique and Ardyss are sold thru private re-sellers and do not seem to have a reachable central design office of sorts.
Your experience might vary depends on whom you deal with.
So far none of them returned mails when asked to provide for our Sissy community.
Even the once favorable to us Triumph does not return calls on their discontinued Doreen's.
A bra does not have to be a "jail" for boobs. To the opposite, it should favor their emancipation.
So after exhausting my existing fleet of usable Doreens, classic Naturana's, CrossYourHeart Playtexe's I had to solve a very difficult equation.
Many mails and calls later it was all a dead end.
Then suddenly I got sun shining "YES" on all counts by Elila right from the start. We discussed models and bra engineering. Their advice was more than appreciated, real bra pros !
The 1303 literally aspires boobs. Magnificent ! The 2801 is a fabulous self-achievement enhancer and the 1301 is like the 1303 but smoother and easier to hide.
The 1505 would be part of my next procurements, I long to try this wonder.
Now I have a consistent fleet of 1303's for daily rotation and they prove to be very durable. Next ones would be in the F size as my boobs react very well to the combined treatment of SoyMilk, Fenugreek tea and 1303's cup shape.
A CB requires lots of adjustments. Just make sure all is clear before ordering. I wear steel cages with insert. They get very uncomfortable if, well, I have male pulsions.
And I also suggest that you try a long leg all-in-one girdle and a chastity. You'll feel... dramatic.
Scented hugs Hon, be good, be Sissy, ask your Fairy and with her help and persistance, your shirts will contain gifts too precious to describe.
hi
DeleteI recently purchased an elila 1303 bra in size 36c and my girlfriend has given me ... 2 beige fancee free style bras 96209 in size 34D. I just sent to chastityco.com my measurements and payment for a sissy chastity belt (I get a 15% discount for the black friday). I will tell you my progress ...
Aw, Honey, I am so proud of you! It's an amazing world, isn't it Sweety?
DeleteWish I could help you with the hooks, adjust your straps, shiver with delight as you swoop&scoop all your sweet boobs in the welcoming cups.
Yes, Hon, love them, desire them, swoop&scoop, massage, envision them coming in your life!
This post contains quite a few tips&tricks, please, please Sweetie, read it:
https://femineaaeterna.blogspot.com/2019/04/elila-1303-reviewed-absolute-best-bra.html
I redacted it with love for all, my sincere wish boob emancipation and happiness.
Love them Sweetheart,give them guidance, support, soy milk, adore them, ask your Fairy for more and...
Feel it happen, you have boobs to fill your tops, you are proud of your sophisticated bras, a new sensuality arises as the lock reminds it's presence under your petti.
Stay in touch Honey, I love you, I love you all!
thanks!
ReplyDeleteIf you do not have references to Fancee Free, I will give you photos. In band it is the same size as Elila, in the glass it tends to be somewhat larger. a 36D (starting from cup D) of fancee free equals a 36E of Elila. By the way. When will you do a review of elila 1305 and 1505? I would like
Aw Honey... I tried to locate the 96209 and it seems this is a discontinued product. How sad.
DeleteI have to definitely procure 1305 and 1505. They're on the list. Now I'm prepping a review of the 1301, an uber cute microfiber cups version of the 1303.
Spoiler: -It's a great bra, somehow easier to conceal than the 1303.
I'll work to procure further Elila's, they're actual, no shortage in sight and....
Honey, the way they hold, shape and enhance is addictive.
Do you Sweetie start to feel your girls finding their way?
For me, it's well past midnight, I am in the 1301 since like 7 am, will don a 1301 for the night to assure proper rotation, Honey, my boobs seemto never have enough ;)
For the weekend I plan the 2801 as now I have a dress that can accommodate the volume it creates.
Whatever the brand Sweetie, your boobs will tell you what's the best.
Care to share how it feels ? Welcome Honey and if you wish to make a review, I'll gladly post it here for all Sisters.
I love you, I love you all!
If you do not have references to Fancee Free, I will give you photos. In band it is the same size as Elila, in the glass it tends to be somewhat larger. a 36D (starting from cup D) of fancee free equals a 36E of Elila. By the way. When will you do a review of elila 1305 and 1505? I would like
ReplyDeleteHello Honey !
DeleteWe already discussed this exact post, please Dear just read a few lines up.
Trying to get the magnificent 1505. Sizing starts at "F". I'm so excited. Will I now have enough to fill it up? Oh, please Fairy, please, that much of soy milk, massages and expectations...
Sorry for my previous post. I sent the same message again.
ReplyDeleteRegarding elila 1303 and fancee free 96209. There are 3 fancee free models that meet these expectations, the 94301 model that is smooth and more youthful, triple T-stitching of the cups and the sling in each cup, without hoops and a good wide strap not elastic and padded. The 96209 model in beige and the 96210 model that is the same but in black they are the same as the 94301 with the exception that it is embroidered and you have option to those 2 colors. the glasses give much more coverage than in elila 1303. Also considering that I love beige (there is no male underwear just that color) and all my bras are beige. Maybe when I buy some other bra that I like (goddess 386) I would do it in brown or brown. On the other hand I bought 2 sashes of pants and tried with my current chastity belt, the force it exerts is brutal and as it crushes everything I have left over. My experience in emancipation. I notice that every time I walk my girls do not accompany me, they want to go in all directions and the bra prevents it. It is not that I have grown a lot but using 2 days in a row the fancee free I have noticed that. I don't drink soy milk, but I do drink cold coffee. In soy milk I have to look at what type among many to choose.
Thank you very much for listening to me.
A greeting!
Wow Honey, first things first. You don't have to thank me Sweetie. I love all my sisters and help, guide and counsel quite some.
ReplyDeleteTried to procure more ELila models, it's a bit complex with the shipping, they are not easily found here.
I guess Fancee Free has dropped quit4e a few models, the only ones I come to are from Amazon and Ebay. Not my cup of tea, chasing for phased-out articles. Unsafe supply, not something I can recommend to many as stocks deplete.
And after wearing that long ELilas with their famous no-stretch straps, Sweetheart, that's a whole different world.
Soy milk ? Simply. Any grocery store has it. Drink it cold,
therefore the cold coffee trick. One liter per day of soy milk, each day. In fact you can drink it without coffee, works the same. Every day.
You also rise another important subject. Compressive castration.
My doctor finally agreed, systematic use of tight panty-girdles has definitely contributed to lower my testosterone level. Which is more than welcome.
Cage and girdle is a demanding practice Honey, don't rush things before you are fully used to it.
Say, if you want to publish a review, then I'll put it here as guest post. Will give you my mail and you can send text & illustrations. Then I'll put it online.
Growing natural boobs is a lengthy process Honey. After a few weeks you'll feel that your boobs are happier as the IMF (Infra Mammary Fold) starts to take shape. Your bras will feel way better and more secure. If you continue my Dear, then, changes will be permanent. Persistance and plenty of "bra time", sleeping included.
Rotate your bras, wearing the same for more than 24 hours will damage it. They need a gentle wash and rest. Only line drying. Heat or tumbler spell death to elastics and synthetics.
I love you, I love you all !
Interesting the sash and the cage. The chastity belt that I have compresses quite my sissy clit but both my girlfriend and I want to make it unusable and minimize its size and avoid its use. My urologist told me that there was no need to massage the prostate and that I could be without any stimulation. Is there any compression belt that also compresses the area of my sissy-clit? Any brand and model? thanks a lot honey
ReplyDeleteAw, Honey, that's a very important topic, thanks for bringing it up! I have many related posts where we can discuss this matter instead of mixing it up with pointy bras:
ReplyDeletehttps://femineaaeterna.blogspot.com/2017/10/how-to-start-with-enforced-chastity-for.html
https://femineaaeterna.blogspot.com/2018/03/chastity-devices-ruined-orgasms_14.html
https://femineaaeterna.blogspot.com/2017/09/panty-girdles-as-chastity-belts-enhance.html
https://femineaaeterna.blogspot.com/2019/02/sissy-castration-how-i-castrated-myself.html
In my experience extended (systematic ?) wear of tight panty-girdles provides a safe and painless castration.
Cages are necessary to accept Sissification. A quick way to realize and accept that Sissies do not penetrate. They are entitled to other pleasures.
I purchase "cheap" stainless steel models from internet. In various shapes and sizes. Then experiment, improve them. Like mirror-polish, bend and even cut, silver-braze the metal for better or more punishing fit.
Which is how I came with the micro cage with urethral tube that's of common use now. But I don't need it anymore that often Tight panty girdles did and still do their job.
It's now more a symbol, a reward:
https://femineaaeterna.blogspot.com/2019/09/soft-nylon-slip-chastity-few-more-hours.html
So Honey, see, I have many places where we can discuss related topics, so please Sweetie, let's continue on one of quoted here more related to the subject posts.
Sweet hugs Honey,
I love you, I love you all !