How to easily clean the grout space between floor tiles and keep it clean

Sissies do homework while real men evolve to full blown sports watching beer guzzling couch potatoes, right ?

Yes we do. Proudly. Housework is something Sissies go for. Be it in tidy short petticoated uniform clicking our heels or sweaty lycra dress and sports bra,

Whichever way, less time on chores means more time for being pretty, isn't it ?

I don't endorse products, this is not a disguised ad, even the brand has been doctored off the picture.

Cross dressing and safety, how to survive in a world of dangers

Fairies are entities of love and compassion. Our real world not so much.

Safe cross-dressing is of paramount importance. Feminine intuition and inner voice warnings are our primary threat detection radar.

Which should not exclude other typically earthy means of defense.

The danger zone

Cross-dressers are exposed to several threats including but not limited to:

• Loneliness
• Alcohol, drugs
• Verbal abuse
• Physical abuse
• Fake, untrustworthy encounters
• Scams
• Internet

With time I have experienced most if not all from that list of nastiness and, thanks to my Fairy and other undisclosed training, managed to survive.

Threats are mutually-dependent, one can escalate into another, several can combine and lead to abominable situations.

Cook-book recipes are of no little in real world.

Threat awareness, mental and physical readiness are cardinal rules for survival.

How panty girdles worn as chastity belts enhance feminine sensuality

History has it that zealous mothers enforced strict panty girdle discipline on their dating daughters.

Nothing uncommon given that girdles were massively worn and desired for their figure shaping by girls and ladies who wanted to be at their best advantage.

Keeping wandering hands off-limit and back seat accidents prevention were equally praised properties. Panty girdles don't come off easy without their wearer contribution. A very efficient barrier against going too far .

Obvious consequence is that young ladies learned how to retrieve the most from kissing, petting and grabbing sessions in open air movie theaters or discretely parked cars.

How to help your breasts grow

'A' cup at best...?!

Edit 2019:
Please click here for my latest experience and findings on the topic.
Warning:
Practices disclosed here can lead to permanent body changes.

Bustline is a scarce commodity for cross-dressers. The cup that runneth over can be a costly trail of marginally legal pills and trips to "el-dottore".

Breast tissues are fundamentally the same for both males and females. Hormones make the difference. Good to know.

Soy milk is very rich in phytoestrogen (plant based estrogen) and easy to legally obtain in about any supermarket.

Grab the hem of your skirt and sharply tug on it ...

"Fetch the Bakelite compact from your purse and tell me what you see in the mirror."

The leather strap with a press button was not very cooperative. Pulled again.

"Tsss, easy, pull outwards ! If you pull sidewise you'll tear it !"

"What's a compact I don't know what to look for."

Nursing bras rock !

Convertible rides ? Yes ! Just flip a switch and off goes the top.

Same here. Immediate exposure and availability. Nursing bras have it.

Women associate them with maternity masking away any taught of alternate applications.

That's how those often utilitarian plain whitish cotton undergarments end in the trash can or thrift stores.

I give it without a fight, the vast majority of nursing bras are downright horrible looking affairs.

Serious lockable high-heels

Sober elegant curvy awesome high heeled classy pumps, what not to like ?

Or adore considering that these are seriously lockable.

Although recurrently coming on my radar, I was unable to trace down their manufacturer.

Legend has it that they are 3D printed in stainless steel and subsequently powder coated for the exclusive privilege of a single person.

You are chosen so you'd better behave ...

The clerk looked tired. Worn out. Contemplating her soon to come retirement ?

"How can I help you ?"

"I would like to extend the concessions please." Handing a clumsily written piece of paper.

Slowly her eyes slid over to me. "Just a moment."

Frantic keyboard ticks.

"Both concessions have been renewed in June for the next thirty years. Would you like to deposit cumulative funds for the following period ?"

Was that compassion in her voice? Or just the etiquette of tomb concession renewal ?

White noise in my ears... Renewed..

"Could you please be kind and inform me on who performed the renewal ?"

Uncommon restraint dress

This isn't the kind of dress to buy on your own. There will be no way to don it without external help.

It better be a present as there is equally no way to get out of it all by yourself.

Why do I shiver while typing this article ? Shall I turn the heater one notch up ? Grin...

I couldn't find more details, it's inventor / manufacturer seems to have disappeared in the deepness of interweb.

Probably kidnapped by extraterrestrials in quest for ultimate means of pleasure ?

Zooming reveals a rather sturdy collar too... More shivers.

Not the kind of dress to wear over a padded bra. Sheer or open cups are a definitive plus.

Attempts to drink Champagne on a romantic evening or adjust a stocking top will lead to further interactions, messed-up lipstick and delay the opening of that sturdy back zipper.

Breastpumps and lactation

Brepumps are awesome value to crossdressers.

Each nipple hosts about 800 nerves rising it to the status of potentially most erogenous zone.

New pumps run in the range of 150$ on popular internet stores and preowned units are way cheaper.

As per design those are nipple stimulation devices.

How does a breastpump feel ? More or less like someone relentlessly suckling your nipples with a good deal of extension.

Maximum suction varies. Hospital grade models are pretty strong and moderately painful at higher settings, a sought after feature for certain scenarios.

Ordinary consumer grade can be very intense but not as much as heavier models.

A hands free pumping bra helps a fulfilling experience.

How it feels to be a woman

I loved biz trips. Hours of driving comfortably clad in support underwear, time to think, the safety belt rubbing against the cups, feeling hosiery underneath my pants.

A dream come true for the under dresser that I am. But the best was the possibility to visit unexplored yet thrift shops.

Careful planning allowed me to reach destination in the evening, all with relatively minor risks of my straps and lace being spotted by preying eyes.

Shopping. A magic word that has kept me awake during so many dull meetings and eye killing debug sessions. Shopping. Programmed points on my navigation system about to become reality.

Heading directly to areas of interest despite sometimes stern looks from the sale ladies.

"Can I help you?" That question had no more effect. Heard it so many times.

"Thanks, just browsing m'aam, if you don't mind." That's it, good riddance, back she walks.

Is that a sky blue nightie, a deluge of smooth nylon, lace and ruffles ? Memories worked fast. Yes.

"That's the real deal girl, you know how good it feels, don't you ?" urged my inner voice.

"How could I ever forget ?"

"There's more to it, just grab !"

That visit turned into rich haul. Awesome clean laundry smelling items, several slips, seemingly new Doreen bra, unopened packs of stockings, firm all-in-one with metal garter tabs, cute silk floral print summer light dress, unboxed perfumes.

Short breath, skin moisture cream falling out of my hands. Those nylons look too good, careful, massage my feet until no damaging asperity can be felt.

Soft crissing sounds from the all-in-one tugging on my stockings with each step as I walk to double check the door latch.

Deep woody fragrance. Swishing slip falling over my shoulders. It felt a bit cold, just a short moment, a mere spasm tingling my nipples.

Tingle. Tense. Hands over the lace, surprise, my bosom feels heavy and full, had it suddenly grown?

Uneasy relentless heartbeat. Electricity in the air. Shivers. No it's not cold, why do I shiver?

Am I swaying hips as I spread pink body lotion over that roll-on deodorant ?

Hearing my own moans, rolling in bed. More moans. Belly spasms. Pink light.

Will that hurt ?

"Relax sweetheart, be a good girl... " moaned my inner voice.

Blinding pink light, my eyes shut...

Did it hurt ? No memories. Do I feel good ? Yes.

Eyes open. Blurred surroundings gaining sharpness.

Yes that's my hotel room. Logically the bathroom should be also here, I sure need a shower...

Cuddling the pillow in my new nightie. Cozy under the warm blanket. Light empty head.

Need to cuddle. Never stop cuddling. Feel the warmth dissolving my consciousness.

"Good night sweetheart girl, you are a woman now..."

"Thanks fairy, you're awesome..."

Slips revealed

Camisoles, chemises, slips, half-slips

Slip. Chances are you have never seen one in real life. They are long gone down the cabal of maximum profits. Feminists hate them.

Feminists hate everything male or related to womanliness and charm except the right to somehow procreate. The process being of course shroud in mystery since procreation is related to obtained by means of charm substances of male origin.

Slips are charming descendants of the chemise, a finer cotton garment worn over tight laced corsets.

Camisoles were worn under the corset to protect the wearer's skin from chaffing and prevent skin residues and sweat from ruining the corset too quickly.

Garter clip earring - Genial !

Weave the diamonds, this "couple of bucks" earring tells the story.

Goes without saying, I adore the idea.

When ? Where ?

"Why are you bothering me, who are you, where are you ?"

"Bother ? Please explain bother." she replied.

"You keep talking in my head that's not all usual save the mentally ill."

"I am not talking in your head. Your brain experiences and interprets my words. Two very different things."

She got me cornered. No matter the years my inner voice was always resourceful in outsmarting me.

"Ok, let's assume you are not in my head. Then where are you considering that our conversations are otherwise perfectly silent ?"

" 'Where' is not sufficient to qualify your question. You should also add 'when' ."

"Then where and when are you ?"

" 'When' precedes 'where' ..."

Deep breath, palm face, grin. "Could you please be kind and inform me when and where are you ? Is my question correctly formulated ?"

Yet another very special dress

Darlex(x) is a Lycra and Nylon stratified fabric combining the best of both. Just enough elastic to let move then firmly and consistently return to it's initial shape.

Meanwhile It's elastic behavior should not be taken for granted. This fabric is very sturdy, resilient, durable and tear-proof, even more so in heavier gauges.

Amazing Little Black Dress With surprising features...

Much more than a good looking little black dress (LBD).

This awesome apparently candid wonder conceals well it's game.

All zippers are locking, not the usual "padlock and strap" setup found on many sissy-dresses but a way more resistant locking mechanism in the sliders. Which can be locked in any position. How cool is that ?

First enchantment

Ouch. Must remove my hands from my chest. Delicately. Carefully. Slowly. Underneath layers of graceful lace my nipples were on fire. Tingling. Tense. Exacerbated and painfully sensitive.

Slowly building situational awareness. On my bed. In my room. So far so good.

Sun filtering through the curtains. Daytime. Usual muffled street noises. So far so good.

In a sky-blue "princess nightgown". Princess nightgown  I whispered to myself.  Where from do I know these words ?

Why were (real) foundation garments kicked out of fashion trends ?

No matter the figure clothes fall better and look sophisticatedly appealing when worn over appropriate structured foundation garments.

So why are they so hard to find today while on display in shops a few decades ago ? Why even a proper delicious decorated full-slip rings the tune of "mission impossible" ?

As vicious as it gets: -Transvestism in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM)

Granted, head-shrinks have modernized their business approach to cross-dressers. By calling them cross-dressers instead of transvestites.

Nevertheless under the hood it's business as usual.

Transvestism is not a mental health condition and is not listed in the DSM. However, transvestic disorder, which is described as the practice of cross-dressing when accompanied both by sexual excitement and emotional distress or social impairment as a result of the excitement, is listed as a paraphilic disorder in the DSM.

--More of that here.