How to start with enforced chastity for deeper sissification and feminization

Say no to maleness.

A locked, supposedly irremovable by the wearer chastity device is a mild non-invasive and reversible form of sex reassignment surgery.

Contrary to internet mythology, chastity devices can not and do not prevent orgasms, period.

Orgasms are triggered by the brain as a reaction to several factors including stimulation of nerves in corresponding associated erogenous zones.

Deterring access to one of them can not derail the process, at most delay it until establishment of alternate arousal paths.

Which is precisely what cross-dressers seek, the possibility to emulate female sexuality at it's best.

3D printing opens new horizons to chastity belts.

A cross-dresser wearing a chastity device is not a man wearing a chastity device.

Men in chastity seek orgasm control as a form of submission. They are delighted to be denied until "paroled for good behavior" or other merits and then locked again ASAP for a new cycle.

To the contrary, cross-dressers submitted to chastity devices feel liberated from the burden of maleness, free to explore further their feminine side without inhibations.

Quest for pleasure is a very powerful stimulus and to be effective in frustrating unwanted attempts, chastity devices should be accepted as tamper-proof.

Again, contrary to myths propagated over internet, very few chastity devices are irremovable unless properly unlocked.

Several cage models are so poorly designed that the wearer can simply "pull off" and "push back" without prior authorization.

Riveted cage.

Piercings or elaborate complex models mitigate the problem by imposing additional physical constraints to the covered organ which remains anchored in the cage and can not be pulled-off.

Florentin style belt variants inherently offer more security than cages.

Properly designed and adapted to the wearer their unauthorized removal requires consequent tools.

The additional constraints they impose can not be ignored by the wearer, a bonus for the sought after feminization.

Optional thigh bands joined by a chain prohibit trousers. Dresses and skirts are all that remains.

Properly locked

thigh bands chain.

Contrary to about all internet images, thigh bands ae not effective and can be easily escaped unless their mid-thighs chain is also anchored to the lowest portion of the crotch strap as illustrated.

How to start wearing a chastity device ? Good time to destroy another internet myth, chastity devices being put to immediate use for long periods straight of the box.

Those things require a very personalized fit, period.

Long term adoption of cages and belts requires a fair amount of training and adjustments.

Most cages are cheaply made overseas and will need fine "mirror" polishing, specifically on their base-ring.

Space between that ring and the cage is also critical for a secure and comfortable fit.

A too narrow ring can be very risky for proper blood circulation while a too loose one will put all the weight of the cage to the scrotum with subsequent pain as the apparatus slides away under gravity loosing it's purpose.

Base rings come in 2 variants. Articulated and closed.

Closed rings are challenging to put on and take off as the scrotum contents should be able to slip thru. one at a time.

Wearing the base-ring requires training. Scrotum shrinks very quickly with temperature. A hot shower will usually have a relaxation effect.

In this case start by lubricating with for example baby shampoo, a very slippery compound. Better too much than not enough. Make sure the ring is warm as contact with a cold object might trigger shrinking.

Push one ball, the one with most slack thru the ring and pull the skin sufficiently. You can use cloth for a better grip.

Then gently push the other ball thru the ring while pulling further skin thru the ring. At a point, the second ball should "plop" pass the ring - the critical portion is done.

Feeling a little pain in the process is normal for tight fitting models.

Pushing testicles with too much force can cause damage. Testicle torsion is a serious medical condition.

If you see that you can't pass the ring, stop ! What you have calls for a bigger ring or another attempt in even more relaxed state.

Once the ring is around the scrotum start gently slipping the member underneath and get the ring as close to the body as achievable.

Washing off the excess lubricant is primordial since lasting lubrication with for example baby oil should be carried on dry skin only.

This said, closed rings lead to sturdier constructions with less play and will chaff less in the long run.

Space between the ring and cage is another critical comfort factor. A good fitting cage will be secure and comfortable.

Too much space compromises security and too little renders long term use impossible due to chaffing and cutting.

A properly fitted cage can be left for very long periods.

Stainless steel models offer better hygiene opportunities over synthetics. As a general rule, morning and evening showers are the strict minimum when wearing a cage or belt.

Entrapped skin can become delicate and sore when washed with rash products. Feminine hygiene soaps will usually solve the problem.

Lubrication is a must for the first period of adaptation and even after for comfort. Paraffin oil (baby oil) and petroleum jelly (Vaseline) do a very good job.

However one should avoid glycerin based products because they're very prone to become a perfect bacteria nutrient with body warmth and sweat.

What model works the best ? A very tricky question. Size matters. A big member will fully stuff the cage and become difficult to "pull" for cheating purposes.

A small or "turtle neck" organ is trickier to lock and will require a more accurate fitting and spacing.

How long ? Most "permanent" chastity device stories on internet are, well, stories and fantasies.

Padlocks are tell-tale signs to sort thongs out between reality and imagination.

They corrode and rust. Specifically the low-end ones found on most pictures.

How a padlock subjected to the corrosiveness of sweat and regular washing for years preserve it's out of the box shininess ? Go figure...

Padlocks need care and unless properly oiled and maintained they will seize in time.

Regular application of sewing machine oil does the trick. The best solution obviously is to purchase a "marine" or weather-proof grade with compatible shackle.

Upgrading the lock of a cage will often require a corresponding enlargement of the locking hole.

Long term chastity, several weeks or months at a time is a very challenging task.

Safety first. Make sure that a key is ALWAYS available in a sealed envelope or held by an easy to reach partner.

Hygiene is primordial. Toilet duties will be done in sitting position. A small bottle of mineral water will deter ugly smells build-up.

Airport safety is another issue. Impossible with cages containing metal. Consider the eventuality of body search. Better don't risk unwanted exposure, get unlocked prior travel.

What to do if after some time you discover that the device will not come-off ? Blocked lock ? Base ring not sliding out ?

Don't panic !

Assess the situation. Do not rush. Padlocks are relatively easy to overcome by various methods, youtube is the place to start.

More complex locks will require tooling. Unless at ease with power tools and tools in general try penetration oil on seized locks, a few drops. It might take hours to act, don't force.

Then it might be wise to call for help. Expertly used power-tools will overcome any lock.

Consider protecting the skin, use thick padding whenever possible and proceed slowly. Cutting of metal, even with a low power Dremel generates lots of heat. Better safe than sorry.

For obvious reasons, if possible take a shower before involving another person to help.

Professional locksmiths have a tradition of privacy. Emergency rooms a bit less since such a case will involve a group of persons.

Surprisingly the dreaded possibility of a base ring not coming off is the easier to solve without external help.

Use abundant lubrication and slowly work it away from the body. Relax, don't rush.

To relieve eventual swelling you might as well let the ring around the scrotum for some days.

In my early days I was surprised when, in similar circumstances, the ring slept by itself and fell down while I was taking a shower the morning after.

So now you're set, properly locked. All fears gone.

Your manhood has "gone away", unavailable for it's intended purpose.

Don't rush things. Let the initial excitement fight the chastity device. Take time to savor your defeat.

Time to get sissy. Feel the urge for something different. Listen to your body new receptiveness develop. Grow to unexplored yet levels.

Days pass. You are not a man anymore. You are a locked sissy. Your first "feminine" orgasm is pending right in front of you.

Time to realize that women have a different sexuality. Whatever pleases them will start to appeal to you. Stringer each passing hour.

Then one day you'll have a wonderful surprise.